It doesn’t always look lonely In Orange County, loneliness can hide behind full calendars and beautiful neighborhoods. It might be a widow who no longer cooks for one; a veteran who misses the camaraderie of routines; a new parent scrolling at midnight, surrounded by people online yet feeling unseen. When time gets scarce because of caregiving, commute, or cost of living, connection can quietly slip away. Why small moments matter Social connection isn’t a “nice to have.” It’s

The national picture Across the U.S., 1 in 5 adults say they felt lonely “a lot of the day yesterday”- a sustained signal that loneliness remains elevated. The U.S. Surgeon General classifies loneliness and isolation as a public health concern with health risks comparable to smoking up to 15 cigarettes a day. What this looks like in OC Local analyses suggest that tens of thousands of older adults in Orange County are at risk of social isolation, with risk concentrated amon

The co-regulation effect When people share a table, we tend to mirror each other, posture softens, voices settle, breathing slows. That gentle synchrony supports the nervous system, which is why even short, positive interactions can ease stress. Trust chemistry & micro-rituals Shared meals are associated with higher social trust, bigger support networks, and stronger community engagement. On a physiological level , warm, predictable rituals (pouring, passing, toasting) cue sa

Food as memory, language, and welcome Food is a carrier of identity: smells, textures, and recipes translate care without needing words. Research from Oxford highlights that people who frequently share meals report greater happiness, social bonding, and embeddedness in their communities. A founder’s lens Growing up in Brazil and working across continents, I learned that the fastest way to help people feel understood is to host them well. At Savoring Connections, I bring that

The five levers Scale:  design for human-sized groups (pods of 4–6) Rhythm:  guide guests from arrival → first taste → shared micro-moment → close Choice:  topping bars, garnish carts, or color choices to build agency Senses:  warm light, natural textures, soft soundscapes; scent cues near the bar Invitation:  use plain, friendly language; place a single card at each seat What the research suggests Regular social eating is associated with greater trust, more supportive netwo